Comments on: Natural Birth, Stereotypes and the “Hippie” Midwife

By: Maryn Leister

Maryn Leister — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 08:35:17 +0000

Hey, thanks, Erin! I can see how that would make you happier, and I totally agree. I guess, just being new in practice, that I was kind of going thru it like everyone does, but it's nice to know that's pretty typical! I am pretty much at the point where I know it doesn't matter--at least to the people that do matter! I second your approach and thank you for being you. I love your blog, by the way!

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By: erinmidwife

erinmidwife — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 07:09:15 +0000

Some women are looking for an authority figure in their care provider (most?) and so that gets equated with a polished, sterile personal presentation. There is definitely a spectrum to the 'hippie midwife' look though, and it's all relative. Personally, I've embraced my inner hippie and am completely comfortable with it. When I started practicing I attempted more of a 'be accessible to everyone' approach both in my philosophy and presentation, and just did not serve me well. I ended up with a client load with whom I did not share much in common with, nor was I completely comfortable around. Midwifery is truly a creative and personal expression for me and I've since adopted a 'what you see is what you get' approach, and people can take it or leave it. Much happier.

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By: Michelle

Michelle — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 08:20:05 +0000

With all the information on this site, the fact that someone is more concerned about how you look than how knowledgeable you are would clearly reveal me that they would find more comfort in the hands of a 'white coat' and aren't even paying attention to the actual information being provided. Please continue to be who you are as you empower mothers to surrender to their natural selves and birth as who they are!

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By: Julie Norris

Julie Norris — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 08:11:19 +0000

Sing it sister.

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By: erindavis

erindavis — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 01:53:08 +0000

The way you look and address us in your videos, especially the one when you have your son with you and you have to nurse him during your presentation, I find great actually! I get so tired of princesses! You look like a normal woman! Its quite refreshing!
Thank you for educating me to educate myself!

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By: Amy Yarger

Amy Yarger — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 08:29:59 +0000

Maryn,
Although I've never met you (just had a few email conversations with you), I really like you Thanks for being who you are, with no apologies for how you look, act, or speak. You are a beautiful woman.
Amy

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